GUYS ARE NEVER JUST NICE TO GIRLS FOR NO REASON!!!

true.we are not the U.N....nor the IMF n certainly not the world bank. and you know why this reference is on money related institutions. because most of the ways guys are good to girls is...monetary wise.or so we think.when you sit down and think however, it extends further...much further than just money. when a guy sees a girl he wants, its like the 'help out' button is released by our brain to the rest of our body. many a men have been blinded by the allure of woman. didn't the world go to war because of a woman...and a recent refrence...didn't the arab revolution start because of a woman. and ain't we on earth because of the allure of a woman??

even the movies emphsise it. the famous 'bump in' scene. the girl has books close to her chest, as she turns, the guy bumps into her and she drops them down.they both get down to collect them and at times even knock heads...but after a few sorries, the guy always walks away carrying the books.or the scene where the guy helps a girl pick a book from a higher shelf that her short stature wouldn't have otherwise allowed her to get to.or the guy neighbor who has hots for his hot female neighbor and helps her carry the grocery and shopping into the house...or occasionally helps with her plumbing and fixing her bulbs. the list is endless.

when i had just joined campus i had hots for this girl(i won't mention her name because i am still in the same campus and we will be together in class for at least another 2 years). i would do almost everything for this chick. what i really remember about today's topic is this day when she was to go to coast to meet her man(yeah...i did all that in knowledge that she had a guy). she was to travel with the night bus. unfortunately, come evening, the heavens opened to some shower.heavy as hell...a hoard of us had promised to escort her, but at the sight of dark clouds, guys decided to settle for the warm and dry of their rooms. so i took her to the bus station....and if i remember well, i'm sure i gave her some pocket money for the trip. call it being naive... sometimes its the depth guys go for girls we like.but contrary to what girls think, we ain't the good Samaritans that our images portray.

no doubt some guys just have a good heart. for the rest of us however, all our good deeds are for another cause. a guy may just like you are at least thinks of you sexually. for some weird reason we think being good will win the girls over. however, since studies and stats have shown that it's the bad guys that both good girls and bad girls prefer, i'm not sure who still plays the 'be good to the girl' card. the worst thing about guys being good to girls is being put in the friendship zone. today i was on site campo and there was this post...

It's official. We're tired of girls complaining that there are no good guys left...hallooo...we are EXACTLY where you left us, IN THE FRIEND ZONE!! Benefits anyone?

hahaha...true as hell. no one can deny. its a cruel feeling i swear. all of us have been there.after all the good doing and ass kissing, the chick doesn't realize that you are there. and like in ma situation(being a guru), and girls always opening up to me(not their tops of course), it's unbelievable. but where do u draw the line and stop being a pussy and...want pussy?

the group of guys who have mastered the art of getting what they want from girls must be sugar daddies. they pay heavily for their mistresses. lavish fully furnished apartments, cars and monthly shopping. in return they get wild sex at weird times of the day and adrenaline filled 'hope i am not caught' sex that their overworked wives lacking elasticity from a number of births would not even dream of giving....even in their wildest dreams.

of late the scratch my back i scratch yours policy seems to be to be getting a better acceptnce. more so now that girls know that they have the secret weapon down there. what is left is us guys reversing the role. you want the good i have to offer, part your legs. by the way...it woks perfectly(speaking from experience). and what's more is that the girls themselves know. i think we just weren't asking. 

so if you want a girl....ask. it goes a long way being straight forward with girls as i we all know they can't themselves. if you do good and you don't reap, stop doing good. if there was something there, she will come back to you...if not. you were wasting your time and efforts and would rather invest them elsewhere. or we have a win-win situation...friends with benefits. i do good, i get laid...she gets laid and gets good done to her.

 

TELL WOMEN WHAT THEY WANT TO HEAR....

have any of you been on 2go?the IM application on phone?i think its an arena of sex-craved people. i love it though, not because i am sex craved...but because i love sex. and well, i get to meet crazier people than I. as i was telling my boys yesterday, on friday night, i added 3 chicks from a chat room. in private chat, the 1st request two of them had was 'send me a pic of your dick'. no way i was doing that. i can't even imagine the process of taking a pic of my dick. as soon as they both realized i wasn't going to 'dick' them, i was kicked off their friends list. in less than 1 min of chatting and 5 sentences. CRAZY!!!
that was just a pointer, my main reference from 2go would come a couple of weeks ago.i had had major blue balls for some time.so this day, i'm from town and exhausted to the core. i get to the house, slop on the bed and get online before sleep has its way with me. then in the chat room some chick comes with this phrase(i can't really remember it) but she just wanted to get laid. well....so did i. so i add her. 1st question. where are you? i was in south c, and her nairobi west. she has her own place. so she starts these background questions about what i do and all. this whole time i'm pressing for us to meet soon. i just catch a mat and would be in nairobi west in 10mins. my sleep was even long gone. questions continue to flow and we realize we in the same universities. then, she asks what year...and i tell her. then again asks if i know a guy in class and i'm like...yeah i do. and just like that...she said 'bye' and we never chat again.BUZZKILL!!. so this chick has already sent me her photos and she is fly as hell and DTF

(down to fuck). i had to to know what happened. happens this guy she asked about was the best friend of her ex and has all her skeletons in his pocket.
i've heard just recently that ladies do not mind being lied to, as long as they do not catch you at it. the secret to laying a chick, or getting her to like you, is telling her what she wants to hear. as long as you know what she likes, play along and do not veer of the course. when the truth comes out or she realizes you have voids in your story that you just decided not to tell, shit begins then.but at least you will have got what you wanted. think of it as a 'release clause'. had i known this earlier....rephrase. i knew this earlier but i do not like lying. i think its too much work.i will have to keep a whole journal to know what lies i told which girl because they are just many in my life...the girls that is.hahaha
yesterday, a close crew of girls we normally hang out with decided to write a diss letter(as a joke) about me n ma boys. now i just did not get the sense behind this. we knew if we dissed them back, they would probably never talk to us. because i know i got shit on them...a lot. i was for the idea we hit them with all the low blows we can. but it comes down to, what would they want to hear. so guys drafted a soft diss.....very soft.3 of my boys are seeing 3 girls the other side. how much sulking do you think they would have received?
there are many examples of how knowing what a girl wants to hear and telling her just that would get you real far. and telling her what she does't, would get you in trouble if you had planned anything. husbands have this situation. when just before you sleep and you are with your wife in bed talking about the events of the day. then she mentions the soap she watches and how that main actor is a real hunk, she would do anything to get him.....and she goes on...and on. but mention the same and you won't get laid for months. and don't stare at another girl's ass... sacrilege.

just know the right buttons to push and you can get any girl you want.

cheers