Thursday 2 June 2011

CHEATING

most of you have watched cheaters on K24, and if not, at least you have heard of it. it airs daily, but the original show from North Texas started in the year 2000 and has over 200 episodes and has 10 seasons. considering that the cases are mostly concentrated in a very small area, they are staggering statistics. in my point of view, this is a very sound business idea. genius actually...you have detectives, counselling, lawyers, the tv itself and obviously ads.... never mind that the whole thing is a hoax.but that's beside the point. many of the victims in the series are women. it's rare to find a man being cheated on by a spouse.
its known for a fact that women think with their hearts and as for us men...that organ would be our dicks. it's unfortunate, sometimes we try very hard but... if you watch the show carefully enough, you would realize no man just cheats. there are reasons, most of them very valid. personally, i have strayed on numerous occasions, and if you asked me why, i would give you plausible reasons. if the sex is not good enough and i tell her but she still does not work on it, if she can not listen to my problems and i get a lady who does, with time one thing will lead to another, when all your girl does is whine and nag all the time and mostly when we have just got to bed and i just want some time to recap my day and plan the next one, when your girl starts rationing sex.... the reasons are many and vary from person to person. t not only men are cheating though. statistically, younger people are more likely candidates of cheating; in fact, younger women are as likely as younger men to be unfaithful. it's a problem that faces us all.
i have always had this weird wish...that i would walk in on my spouse cheating on me with another man. think of that old R Kelly and P Diddy(then known as puff daddy) song-Satisfy you. yeah weird...i know.  it would be devastating, but the events that would follow... i would just walk out. eventually she would come crying and begging you to take her back and the apologies. there's nothing that's more satisfying. if she wouldn't come back, to bad. it wasn't worth the stress in the first place. because relationships are stress most times. another song that comes to mind is the longs series of songs by R Kelly-trapped in the closet. it would hurt 10 fold if it came to your knowledge that your spouse was cheating on you with someone of the same sex. do not lie to yourself that you would be singing 'my girl got a girlfriend'. the question that will obviously play over and over in your head would be...'WTF?' what could have driven her that far away? even if you eventually had a  threesome. as is common knowledge one of the participants is an outcast  and you do not need to second guess who that would be.
there are many remedies to cheating. the liberal ones would say polygamy. the kinky ones would swing. crazy ones let their spouses have sex with other people as they watch. what i think...communication. if i got what i wanted from whoever it was that i'm dating, i would't stray. after all, all vagainas are just that and so are boobs and arses. however, if i told you the girl i preffered this and she said she would work on it but didn't.then i reminded her again...and again, but nothing. TOO BAD. if you can't do it, i would respect your decision. but if it is so important to me, we would just break up.in marriage, that's tricky...
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